GWERS 33

CYFLWYNYDD:    BASIL DAVIES

NOD:      Cweryla , cymodi ac ymdiheuro

	Geirfa

	cweryla	- 	to quarrel	cymodi		-	to reconcile
	achosi	-	to cause	ymddiheuro		-	to appologize
	trafod/trin	-	to treat	beio		-	to blame
	twyllo	-	to deceive	siomi		-	to disappoint
	ymestyn	-	to stretch,	gwylltio		-	to lose one's
			to exaggerate				     temper
	gweiddi		to shout	   colli tymer		-	to lose one's temper
	cnoi	-	to bite, chew	brathu		-	to bite
	wynebu	-	to face	ychwanegu	-	to add
	tr•o	-	to try	moyn (DC)	-	to want
	camddeall	-	to misunderstand	cydnabod	-	to admit
	gwynto(DC)	-	to smell	arogli	-	to smell
	cynnig	-	to offer	synnu	-	to be surprised	rhegi	-	to swear	cadw sùn	-	to make a noise
	addo	-	to promise	codi	-	to raise

	blin (GC)	-	angry	crac (DC)	-	angry
	cas	-	nasty	anghwrtais	-	discourteous
	swnllyd	-	noisy	diflas	-	miserable
	cymaint o 	-	so much	plentynnaidd	-	childish
	ofnadwy	-	terrible	

	bywyd	-	life	peth(au)	-	thing(s)
	baw	-	dirt	damwain	-	accident
	gwres	-	heat	celwydd(au)	-	lie(s)
	gwynt	-	smell	mwg	-	smoke
	tafod	-	tongue	sùn	-	noise
	sylw	-	remark	llanast	-	mess
	llais	-	voice	tymer	-	temper
	sefyllfa	-	situation	llais	-	voice
	mwg	-	smoke	gwres	-	heat
	baw	-	dirt	

			
							    	
	camddealltwriaeth - misunderstanding

	o'r fath	-	of the kind/	am ryw 	-	for some
			  such a	   reswm		   reason
	yn ™l	-	according to 	neu'i gilydd	-	or other		ei gilydd	-	each other	byth eto	-	ever again
	fel'na	-	like that

RHAN 1

	1.	Mae llawer o bethau mewn bywyd yn gallu eich gwneud chi'n 			flin neu'n grac.

	Yn y Gogledd, mae pobl yn eich gwneud chi'n flin.
	Yn y De, mae pobl yn eich gwneud chi'n grac.

			'Dw i'n flin /  'Dw i'n grac .
			- I'm angry / annoyed.

	2.	Pa fath o bethau sy'n gallu achosi i bobl gweryla?

	Efallai bod pobl yn rhegi ac yn galw enwau cas arnoch chi.
	- Perhaps people swear and call you nasty names.

	Efallai bod rhywun yn anghwrtais iawn ac yn eich trafod (chi) 		fel baw.
	- Perhaps someone is very discourteous and treats you like dirt.

	Efallai eich bod chi mewn damwain a phawb yn beio ei gilydd		yng ngwres y foment.
	- Maybe you're in an accident and everyone is blaming each other 
                    in the heat of the moment.

	Efallai bod rhywun yn eich twyllo (chi) - a hynny 'n eich siomi (chi).
	- Maybe someone is deceiving you  -  and that disappoints you.
										  
	Efallai bod rhywun yn swnllyd iawn ac yn mynd ar eich nerfau (chi).
	- Perhaps someone is very noisy and is getting on your nerves.

											       
	Efallai bod rhywun yn dweud celwydd - ac mae'n gas 'da chi 	glywed celwyddau.
	- Perhaps someone is telling lies - and you hate to hear lies. 
	
	Efallai eich bod chi wedi camddeall rhywun - neu rywun wedi eich 	camddeall chi.  Mae camddealltwriaeth yn gallu achosi llawer o 	gweryla rhwng pobl. 
	- Maybe you have misunderstood someone - or someone has 
	  misunderstood you. A misunderstanding can cause a lot of quarrelling
	  between people.

	3.		Mae llawer o bethau'n achosi cweryla.
			- Many things cause quarre.lling.

			(a)	Mae pobl yn rhegi.
					- People swear.

		 	(b)	Mae pobl yn galw enwau cas arnoch chi.
					- People call you nasty names.

			(c)	Mae pobl yn gallu bod yn anghwrtais.
					- People can be discourteous.

			(ch)	Mae pobl yn gallu bod yn swnllyd / yn gallu cadw sùn.
					- People can be noisy / can make a noise.

			(d)	Mae rhai pobl yn beio / yn rhoi'r bai ar ei gilydd.
					- Some poeple blame each other.

					Ti oedd ar fai am y ddamwain  -  nid fi!
					- It was you who was to blame for the accident  -  not me!

										
	4.	You could say:

			(a)	Paid ‰ cholli dy dymer. / Paid ‰ gwylltio.
					Peidiwch ‰ cholli eich tymer./ Peidiwch ‰ gwylltio.
					- Don't lose your temper.

				
											   
			(b)	Oes rhaid i chi / ti...?	         -         Do you have to / Must you...?

						Oes rhaid i chi / ti regi?
						- Do you have to swear?

						Oes rhaid i chi golli eich tymer?
						- Do you have to lose your temper?

						Oes rhaid i ti wylltio?
						- Do you have to lose your temper?

						Oes rhaid i ti ysmygu?
						- Must you smoke?
							
				Oes rhaid i chi fod mor swnllyd?
				- Must you be so noisy?

		Oes rhaid i chi gadw cymaint o sùn?
		- Do you have to make so much noise?

		Oes rhaid i chi gadw cymaint o sùn wrth yfed? 
		- Must you make so much noise whilst drinking / eating?
		
		Oes rhaid i chi fod mor(so) blentynaidd?
		- Must you be so childish?

	5.	In Welsh we can use double negatives

					Weithiau mae'n well peidio ‰ dweud dim!
					- Sometimes it's better not to say anything!

					Peidiwch / Paid ‰ dweud dim.
					- Don't say anything (nothing!).

											      
		 									           
RHAN 2

	1.	Mae'n helpu weithiau os ydych chi'n ychwanegu sylw (if you add a 		remark)

		Oes rhaid i chi regi? 
		
		.........'Dyw clywed pobl yn rhegi ddim yn neis iawn!
			- Hearing people swear isn't very nice.

		.........'Dyw e ddim yn neis iawn i glywed pobl yn defnyddio 			geiriau fel 'na!
			- It's not very nice to hear people using words like that.

		Oes rhaid i chi gadw cymaint o sùn? 

		......... Mae pen tost ofnadwy 'da fi / Mae gen i gur pen ofnadwy.	
			- I have a terrible headache..

	      .........Mae'r babi'n cysgu .
			- The baby's asleep (sleeping).

		.........'Dw i'n tr•o darllen.
			- I'm trying to read.

	2.	Mae'n bosibl bod tipyn bach yn gryfach pan fydd rhywun yn gwneud eich		bywyd yn ddiflas.  Felly dywedwch:

	Fasai ots 'da chi / 'da ti beidio (‰)...?		-      Would you mind not......?
	Fasai ots gynnoch chi / gen ti beidio (‰)....?	

		Fasai ots 'da chi beidio ‰ rhegi?
		- Would you mind not swearing?

		Fasai ots gynnoch chi bedio ‰ chadw sùn?
		- Would you mind not making a noise?

												    
											   
		Fasai ots 'da chi bedio ‰ chadw cymaint o sùn?
		-  Would you mind not making so much noise?

		Fasai ots gynnoch chi beidio ag ysmygu?
		- Would you mind not smoking?

		Fasai ots 'da chi bedio ‰ bod mor blentynnaidd?
		- Would you mind not being so childish?

		Fasai ots gynnoch chi bedio ‰ gwneud cymaint o lanast?
		- Would you mind not making such a mess?

	3.	Gyda llaw - mae dweud 'os gweli / gwelwch yn dda' (please) yn help i  gadw'r 		sefyllfa dan reolaeth (under control).  Cofiwch hefyd am 'diolch yn fawr'.	

	4.	Unwaith eto, mae ychwanegu sylw yn gallu bod yn ddefnyddiol

		Fasai ots 'da chi beidio ag ysmygu, os gwelwch yn dda?  

		..........Mae chest' dost 'da fi (Mae gen i frest ddrwg) yn anffodus, ac mae 			mwg sigarets yn ei gwneud hi'n waeth .  Diolch yn fawr.
			- I have a bad chest , unfurtunately, and cigareette smoke makes
			   it worse, Thank you.

	5.	Wrth gwrs, rydych chi'n gallu dweud yn blwmp ac yn blaen (you 			can come right out and say):

	Peidiwch / Paid ‰ rhegi!		-	Don't swear!
	Peidiwch / Paid ‰ chadw (gwneud)	-	Don't make so much !noise!
		cymaint o sùn!
	Eisteddwch / Eistedda!			-	Sit down!
	Byddwch / Bydd yn dawel / ddistaw! -	Be quiet!
	Bwytwch / Bwyta'n iawn!		-	Eat properly!
	Bihafiwch / Bihafia wrth y bwrdd!	-	Behave at the table!

											    
RHAN 3

	1.	You might feel that you need to apologize  -  ymddiheuro.

		Mae mwy nag un ffordd o ddweud 'sorry' yn Gymraeg

	Yn y De, mae pobl yn dweud:

		Mae'n flin / ddrwg 'da fi
		
		Yn y Gogledd, mae pobl yn dweud:

			Mae'n ddrwg gen i.

	2.	am        -        for

	Mae'n flin 'da fi am  regi.	
	- I'm sorry for swearing.

	Mae'n ddrwg 'da fi am ysmygu.	
	- I'm sorry for smoking.

	Mae'n ddrwg gen i am ddweud celwydd.	
	- I'm sorry for telling lies .	

	Mae'n flin 'da fi am gadw cymaint o sùn.	
	- I'm sorry for making so much noise.
				
	Sylwch ar y Treiglad Meddal ar ™l 'am'.

	3.	On reflection, you might realize that you shouldn't have done 			something or other, so you could say:

	Ddylwn i ddim bod wedi.....	- 	I shouldn't have.......

 							       
		Ddylwn i ddim bod wedi rhegi.	
		- I shouldn't have sworn.
 
		Ddylwn i ddim bod wedi gweiddi.	
		- I shouldn't have shouted.
			
		Ddylwn i ddim bod wedi bod yn gas. 	
		- I shouldn't have been nasty.
							
		Ddylwn i ddim bod wedi codi fy llais.	
		- I shouldn't have raised my voice.							

	4.	You can tell yourself:

	(Mae) rhaid i fi beidio (‰.)....	-	I musn't .......

		Rhaid i fi beidio ‰ cholli fy nhymer.	
		- I must not lose my temper.
			
		Rhaid i fi beidio ‰ chodi fy llais.	
		- I must not raise my voice.
		
		Rhaid i fi beidio ‰ beio pobl eraill.	
		-  I must not blame other people.

	5.	You can promise not to do something again

	'Dw i'n addo peidio (‰).......	-	I promise not to.......

		'Dw i'n addo peidio (‰) gweiddi fel 'na eto.
		- I promise not to shout like that again.
						
		'Dw i'n addo peidio ‰ cholli fy nhymer.
		- I promise not to lose my temper.  
						
		'Dw i'n addo peidio dweud pethau cas.		
		- I promise not to say nasty things.

								     
	6.	Idiomau a dywediadau

	Taw piau hi				-	Silence is golden
	Peidiwch ‰ dweud dim				-	Don't say anything
	Brathwch / Cnoiwch eich tafod	-	Bite your tongue
		Dweud yn blwmp ac yn blaen	- 	To come straight out and say
									To say bluntly

	7.	Diarhebion

	Gwneud m™r a mynydd (o rywbeth).
	- To make a great to-do (about something).
	- To exaggerate.	
	- To make a mountain out of a molehill.

	Tynnu blewyn o drwyn.
	- To do something deliberately to annoy someone.
	 ( To pull a hair from the nose)

	Tynnu  nyth cacwn am eich pen.
	- To create problems for yourself.
	(To pull a wasp's nest on your head)